I would recommend two things:
a) installing all packages together. currently you are installing a metapackage jupyter (Jupyter :: Anaconda.org) which is likely not needed; you should not need to install jupyter-server manually
b) trying conda-forge if you want the latest versions as this is where Jupyter maintainers upload packages
So in a fresh environment, conda install -c conda-forge jupyterlab notebook. If you want specific versions you could pin them, for example conda install -c conda-forge jupyterlab=4.0.6 notebook=7.0.4